Abusive Partner

You can spend your energy and stomach lining trying to change someone else, their abuse of you, how they park their car, that is, whether it is within the lines and equally spaced from both sides, what they had for dinner and the dinner’s health characteristics, how they manage their money, usually poorly, but if smartly, that’s a problem, too. Nothing will change and you will be stuck in a muddle about other people. This is a dreadfully codependent way to live. Doing so will put you in harm’s way of finding another abusive partner.